On strike! I remember those days so well. Honestly, they weren't all that long ago.
Reading what you're going through brought me right back. I was exactly where you are not so long ago. Damn, it's uncanny how closely this addiction mirrors itself in people's lives. I'm sorry you have to go through this alone, Ashley. In any case, please feel free to vent here, and know that you are not alone in this, though it may feel that way. There are others who've been through it, are going through it still.
For us gamer widows, there's a limited access part of this site called Widower's Alley. You will need to speak with an admin to get access to those threads, but it's more private because of that. If you'd like to post over there you'll just need to send a quick message to Psykiblue, the moderator. Just a little more privacy for those of us who want or need it.
Also, had to share this because I know the feeling well. One of the most satisfying moments confronting this problem was the evening where I told her, "You've got 10 seconds to say goodbye to your friends." Then I counted to 10, pulled the plug on the modem and took the power cord. Boy did we fight that night, but damn it felt good to do that.