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Tuna Breath

Postby xX_Amber_Xx on Thu Feb 11, 2010 9:11 pm

So, I'm bitching here because I can't bitch at HIM.

When I woke up this morning, I looked at the clock and noticed he was to be late for his first college class of the day - no surprise. I asked him what time it started, in case I was wrong, and he turned around and started saying, "Just stop. Stop." as if I'd been bugging him for an hour. Last night we had a huge fight because I asked him why he hadn't done his homework and is thus failing a couple classes, and he turned it around and started telling me that I shouldn't be lecturing anyone about responsibilities because it had taken me four months to find a job, one of which I was sick, and the next was during the holiday rush and the third was when they were looking to get rid of people - not hire. (I've got a job now, though). He's like, "Oh, well you promised my mother you'd help her with her utilities bill and it's taken you this long just to find a job."

Well, sorry to tell you this, asshole, but you promised your mom the same thing when you moved in and you never even got a job to begin with. :desk

Oh, and just to interject, I talked to him about Sallietoo's situation and he asked how that was going. I said, "I don't know, I think they might get a divorce over it all." Guess wtf he just said to me? "How does it feel to be the cause of their divorce?"

ARE YOU KIDDING ME?! Just because I helped her find out what he's doing on SL does not me that I'm at fault for her husband's idiocy.

Now, back to my bitchiness, he goes to his second class, comes home, still acting like an ass. I'm watching a show, he's screaming in my ear as his friend plays a game on his computer. I tell him I can't hear, he keeps fucking going.. now, this normally isn't enough to piss me off, but then I hear it.. I hear the one thing that pisses me off most, not because of what it is, but because of how he does it. He farts. He farts literally right on me. I look at him and then pretend to ignore it like I normally do. I mean, everyone has to now and then and he was sitting awkwardly so maybe it was an accident. He does it again.. and again... and an-effing-gain.

Well, I ignore it still, and his friend leaves. His mother comes over not too long after and sees something about school on his computer. She's so happy he's on that I don't correct her when she asks if it's homework or him when he tells her it is. That makes me mad too. He's acting like his second chance at college is nothing.. a chance that I may never get. Regardless, he had to go to another class where we talk online during the lecture and he's trying to backpedal I guess.. Apologizing and saying he hates when I get timid because he's snapped at me or something. It's like, what does he expect when he turns on me like some rabid dog just for trying to push him to be better...?

so he starts making promises... but slowly, "I wont play my xbox game tonight" turns into "Well, I could play tonight and we could spend time together tomorrow" and then that turns into "Well, I'll decide when I get home". lol. :headscratch

So he gets home and i walk over to him.. He's already gotten on his computer to play a game since I'm on the xbox on his, finishing up.. I was aiming for sexy and he's like, "Why can't you just take no for an answer?!" I don't demand sex or anything but fucking hell..

So I get up and go to update my facebook and he's like, 'No, go heat up your food', as if I'm the one who puts off eating for my games - which I don't even play anymore.

I go heat up my tuna helper and walk back into the room and he goes, "Hey!" as I take a bite. Then he makes this face and says, "Well, I was about to kiss you." See, he doesn't like fish supposedly (he doesn't like a lot of things), and refuses to touch me or anything if I eat any of it.

Now, this is when I logged on here. I mean, WTF. I tolerate him FARTING on me day and night - and he does it purposely - and he can't even give me a peck on the lips because he hates fish. He eats shrimp and anything else if it's fried! Doesn't make much effing SENSE.

UGH. Just another day in the fucking life, right?
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Re: Tuna Breath

Postby MaryBraveBird on Fri Feb 12, 2010 1:31 pm

god, what a day :( he definitely had no right telling you that you are the reason for their divorce. you helped her by looking up stuff that was public anyway, and that she couldn't find herself. i think it was a good thing you did, not letting her live in ignorance of his online cheating. never let him tell you otherwise!
and bitching at you like that? what is he, a girl? ;) seriously, he should get his act together, this is no way to treat his girlfriend. i feel for you :( and never hesitate to come here to vent, it's what we are here for!
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Re: Tuna Breath

Postby Tawnee on Fri Feb 12, 2010 2:56 pm

lol, Mary is right on the venting. I rememeber a few of mine were lucky to have normal words they were so full of swearing. It feels so good to let it out.

And I agree what you did for Sallie was a good thing. You did not make her husband do that shit, you just showed her exactly what he was doing so that he couldn't lie to her anymore. You acted like a true friend.

I remember some of the Talks I recieved from the girls here. They told me quite frankly to get the fuck out. Sure, sometimes I didn't want to hear it and they risked pissing me off. But they didn't care because they knew I had to get out. They cared enough about me to risk my friendship and they did it anyway. They were true friends.

And next time he farts on you tell him that it's funny for someone that doesn't like fish to have his farts smell like squid.
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Re: Tuna Breath

Postby xX_Amber_Xx on Fri Feb 12, 2010 4:17 pm

Thanks, girls. Last night he had the gall to say he felt he was 'losing' me as if he was completely innocent and I was just like, "I've been really angry with you for a few days now." I say days because a few weeks ago or less, I nearly left anyway, but he begged and apologized and I fucking forgave him and he swore up and down to be better.

Oh, and now that he doesn't have anything else to bitch about, (i.e. my playing Second Life or my friends that I stopped talking to because he demanded it), now he's bitching about GamerWidow.com! he says I make him look like this terrible boyfriend and all I could say is, "Babe, sometimes you are." And that's being nice about it. Sure, sometimes he's okay. Normally when he's not playing his goddamn games for hours on end or when when he's in trouble for pissing me off in the first place. God, why doesn't he GET it?
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Re: Tuna Breath

Postby xX_Amber_Xx on Fri Feb 12, 2010 5:08 pm

Oh, and just an update, we were supposed to be at dinner with his dad at 5? it's 5:10 or so now and he hasn't gotten in the shower. I believe he said to his xbox live friends, "I've got one more in me before I have to go."

Now I get to wait, hungry, for him to gtfo his game and get ready to leave so we can go eat. That is, if his dad waits for his ass. -.-
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Re: Tuna Breath

Postby sallietoo on Fri Feb 12, 2010 11:06 pm

OMG!! YOU TELL HIM HE HAS A LOT OF NERVE BLAMING YOU FOR MY PSYCHOTIC HUSBAND WHO HAS HAD THIS SCHIZOPHRENIC ADDICTIVE BEHAVIOR FOR OVER 20 YEARS. We went through the alcohol & pot, alcohol & recreational drugs even crack. I prayed he would quit before our baby girl got old enough to know what was going on when he was out all night till after the bars closed. Well he didn't and now she hates to come home. bad memories I guess. He got hooked on cigarettes for a while but finally quit have I had filled up a 30 gallon garbage can with every pack of his cigarettes I could get my hands on, can you imagine how much it cost and most the time he was not working and I was working full time and he still kept drinking too much. We even moved to another state out in the absolute wilderness and he did not quit drinking & it turn out there was coke just down the road from us but at least he could not hang out at the bars any more, they were too far from home down a dangerous road. Then he got addicted to nasty chew and still drank too much and he finally stopped drinking cuz he got a D.U.I. and now it's Second Life 20 hr. a day when he is not working which leaves ZIP for me, our marriage, & 2 kids. NONE OF THIS WAS ANYBODIES FAULT BUT MY PSYCHOTIC DRAMA KING HUSBAND. The weird think is your BF sounds just like my SON-OF-A-B*%@# husband. For the life of me I don't understand why they make things so hard on themselves to the point of self destructing - like with not getting to class on time and doing homework - HEY AMBER'S BF THIS IS THE LEAST YOU HAVE TO DO IN COLLEGE - HOW ARE YOU GOING TO GET THE MASSIVE PAPERS DONE AND PASS THE TESTS IF YOU CAN'T EVEN DO THE MINIMAL? More importantly WHY WOULD YOU DO THE MINIMAL - DON'T YOU WANT TO DO YOU BEST TO SUCCEED? Sorry but the teacher in me is just kicked in!! ANOTHER THING, IT'S NOT A CONVERSATION IF SOMEONE ASKS YOU A QUESTION AND YOU THROW ANOTHER QUESTION AT THE OTHER PERSON LIKE IT'S A TENNIS GAME - MY ASS HOLE HUSBAND DOES THIS ALL THE TIME AND IT'S SO CHILDISH & IMMATURE BUT IN HIS SELFISH, SELF ABSORBED MIND HE THINKS IT'S SOME KIND OF COMPETITION HE HAS TO WIN BY DESTROYING HIS OPPONENT WHICH HAPPENS TO BE ME, HIS WIFE THAT HAS STUCK IT OUT WITH HIM FOR 28 YEARS & HAS BEEN MISERABLY FOR 26 OF THEM, THAT IS HOW OLD MY DAUGHTER IS. THANK YOU AMBER FOR EVERYTHING YOU HAVE DONE FOR ME I TRULY TRULY APPRECIATE IT. I HATE BEING IN THE DARK AND NOT KNOW THE TRUTH. PLEASE DON'T STOP HELPING ME CUZ YOUR BF IS ALL CRABBY & IRRITABLE CUZ HE SPENDS HIS TOO MUCH OF HIS FREE TIME PLAYING A FANTASY GAME. There are Chauteaus and Castle in France & England that were built in 15 years by hand with no mechanical equipment and it has taken my house 15 years to fall apart. IT'S A PATHETIC TRAGEDY TO WASTE SO MUCH TIME WHEN SOME PEOPLE ONLY HAVE A FEW YEARS TO LIVE. OUR WORLD IS UP SIDE DOWN :rofl NO ONE HAS ANY COMMON SENSE, DRIVE, AMBITION, MOTIVATION FOR THE RIGHT THINGS, THE REAL AND LASTING THINGS, THE IMPORTANT THING IN LIFE.
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Re: Tuna Breath

Postby FadedNovelty on Sat Feb 13, 2010 8:04 am

xX_Amber_Xx wrote:Thanks, girls. Last night he had the gall to say he felt he was 'losing' me as if he was completely innocent and I was just like, "I've been really angry with you for a few days now." I say days because a few weeks ago or less, I nearly left anyway, but he begged and apologized and I fucking forgave him and he swore up and down to be better.

Oh, and now that he doesn't have anything else to bitch about, (i.e. my playing Second Life or my friends that I stopped talking to because he demanded it), now he's bitching about GamerWidow.com! he says I make him look like this terrible boyfriend and all I could say is, "Babe, sometimes you are." And that's being nice about it. Sure, sometimes he's okay. Normally when he's not playing his goddamn games for hours on end or when when he's in trouble for pissing me off in the first place. God, why doesn't he GET it?


Whoa wait, you stopped talking to your friends for THIS guy? He sounds like a piece of work, and kind of controlling. Don't let him tell you what to do, it's not like he does anything you want him to do, why should you be his slave? I'm not sure why you stick around, I haven't heard one good thing about him :X
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Re: Tuna Breath

Postby xX_Amber_Xx on Sat Feb 13, 2010 8:18 am

FadedNovelty wrote:Whoa wait, you stopped talking to your friends for THIS guy? He sounds like a piece of work, and kind of controlling. Don't let him tell you what to do, it's not like he does anything you want him to do, why should you be his slave? I'm not sure why you stick around, I haven't heard one good thing about him :X


I wish I knew sometimes. :headscratch

We never went to dinner last night. He played his game right up to three hours later when he HAD to leave for a bowling tournament, two hours of which I cleaned the entire house, took the trash out, and went grocery shopping so I could make some effing soup. Nothing pisses me off more than when he goes, "We have to be there at such and such time so if you wanna go, get ready," only to have to say an hour after we had to be there, "We aren't going are we?" and for him to just be like, "Guess not lol"

Blah. He needs to straighten up or I'm out of here.
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Re: Tuna Breath

Postby xX_James_Xx on Sat Feb 13, 2010 8:37 am

Well, as soon as you need me, hun, I'm here. Yes, I made an account, just to annoy you :evil Just email me in gmail for whatever reason, and I'll respond within 48 hours, I can guarantee you that much. Looks like you have a bunch of support here, which is good for you, so keep coming here even if -he- doesn't like it, f*cking wah, like a baby. Still have that money for you, all you are is a call away, I'll email you the number, so check gmail...uhm...now. You are :welcome anytime here, and I'm following some leads on a job, I'll let you know. Baibai for now.
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Re: Tuna Breath

Postby xX_Amber_Xx on Sat Feb 27, 2010 5:11 pm

Oh, and now that I have a job, it's worse around the house. I live in filth but I'm too tired half the time to do anything about it until my days off. Grr :grumble
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Re: Tuna Breath

Postby Lithium543 on Sat Mar 20, 2010 11:07 am

You really need to get rid of that ass. Seriously. Coming from a male perspective (I don't know how many you have on here), this absolutely repulses me. I never "expect" a thing out of my girlfriend, save she change the cat box because the cat was hers when we met, and I'm not a really a pet person.

You're a much calmer person than I would've been. I really want to tell you to just smack the shit out of him, and walk out, but there are so many details that someone can't account for. I hope he's not someone I know. (Internet is funny like that, believe me).
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Re: Tuna Breath

Postby xX_James_Xx on Mon May 10, 2010 9:10 pm

Lithium543 wrote:You really need to get rid of that ass. Seriously. Coming from a male perspective (I don't know how many you have on here), this absolutely repulses me. I never "expect" a thing out of my girlfriend, save she change the cat box because the cat was hers when we met, and I'm not a really a pet person.

You're a much calmer person than I would've been. I really want to tell you to just smack the shit out of him, and walk out, but there are so many details that someone can't account for. I hope he's not someone I know. (Internet is funny like that, believe me).


You have no idea, man v_v Guys like him give the rest of us a bad name. I expect nothing except honesty, and that's all I think anyone *should* expect.
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Re: Tuna Breath

Postby AMNeSia on Sun May 19, 2013 1:16 pm

Well, this article really gets to me. You know, when I imagine someone (the gamer) not doing their work, being lazy all the time and the poor other person having to do all their work. I wish I could have someone like your gamer, so I could get out of my own gaming crap. Of course, both of us are somewhat different, in the case that he chooses to remain crap and I am unable to get grip on my mind.

Really, the hurt does get to me, how a person feels when they're half-dead after all the work, and the other person just enjoys on their spent energy, time and resources. I really get the shivers when I imagine me being the gamer (or any addict) beyond the event horizon (point of no return) and the other person striving to just run the whole place. Freaks me out when I see them dead tired and still being treated like trash. I see my parents do it everyday and me being the lazy-ass brat, but I hate them and that's a different story not for this post.

Even though I hate them, I wish I could actually get confidence to not be shy and go about doing my work. Anyone in your place would have kicked his ass. I wish there was someone who could kick mine, not because I'm stubborn enough to not change, but because I am not able to control my mind. I know, saying "If only I had this" won't help the situation, but being alone with no one to push me gets a nuisance. There's no 2 AM friend I have, or anyone physically present to push me on. As I said, different story, but parents just not my choice.

Hope things turn out better for you. I hope I can change myself before I end up with the event horizon on my face.
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