It was difficult to watch as I saw my niece finally become, at age 13, just like her slob brothers. My niece & nephews are lost to me, and I wasn't allowed to make any comments. My mom would only cry and ask me why I was upsetting her if I told her what I really thought.
Bad, my brother-in-law sweet-talked my mom into buying 3 copies of the latest popular PC game (so each child could have their own game.)
Badder, my brother-in-law has moved a PC into my niece's room so that she can game whenever she wants.
Baddest, my niece has morphed into her worst - slob brother. I was shocked: my niece had been up all gaming online, came down stairs this morning wearing her pj's. She didn't want to change out of her pj's, but wear them all day. She hadn't bathed, hadn't washed her hair, nor brushed her teeth. Monday, my niece had had to go to the dentest to get 10 cavities filled. And, tonight, as my niece was leaving the dinning room table, she bleched loudly and longly in front of all of us.

Again, I brought DVD's for the kids to watch with me. And, again, one nephew went to the basement "anti-social" room, went in, locked the door away to electronic online exile. Another of my nephews went online gaming in another part of the basement (the lesser anti-social section,) and my niece played her new X-box game on the large screen tv in the living room.
Thankfully, I brought a book to read so that I could at least enjoy something that wasn't electronic.
OK, so, much for my family who says they want to see me. I have developed a new "family" of people who share the same interests as I do. And, I am very thankful I bought a gift for myself this year, something I really wanted and love. It was paid for by artwork I sold just before Christmas. And, I don't worry about what my sister and family do, say or think. When they move away, I will wave big bye-bye!
